HOW TO MAKE RELATIONSHIP
Relationship is needed by everyone. We are human. A human is social creature. As a social creature, we need help from others. Because of the fact, everyone tries to build relation with other. By relations that have been built by us, we are going to get some help. In this case, not only get helping from our relations, but also we have to give helping to our relations when they need.
In this essay, I would like to write some methods to get friends and maintain our friendships. First, please open yourself. Do not be introvert person. Show who you are and let others see inside you. Of course not everything is public consume, but do not close yourself from another’s sight. If you are a mysterious one, people will get trace base on their opinion and guess. People frequently wrong in judge others by first sight. So, please show your mind, idea, believe and dream.
Secondly, do not judge others by your glasses. Judge everyone wisely because everyone has their own thinking. True in our mind is not always right in another’s point of view. You must understand the background of your friend. If there are differences between you and friend, do not make it wider and bigger. Better if you avoid this difference and try to distract to another topic. If the difference is very principle, please control yourself and try to be democratic one. If you are a decision maker, make the decision as clear as possible to make clear who one in different side with you but do not confront them, just be careful and watch out if they do some tricky method. You have to straight and again all your enemy totally. Do not hesitate because of having enemies. Never try to make every one satisfy with you, although you have done the best thing.
The third guidance to get good relationship is trust building. Do not spread the secret of your friend. You must keep the privacy of your relation. You must make other enjoy besides you. Please become trustful one.
The next ideas to make good relationship are teamwork and help our relation sincerely. In every relation there are taking and giving. Sometime we get something from our friend, but we have to help our friend if they need our help. Do not be egoistic and opportunistic one. How much you get depend on how much you give. Giving is not only material, but also advice and attention. We have to care about the problem of our friend. Never ignore what their complaint. You must care your friend not only in nice condition, but also sorrow situation.
In conclusion, we need helping of our relation because we are a social creature. Open yourself, be wisely person, trust building and ready to help our friend are main factor in making mutual and long friendship.
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